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writes: Ok, so I'm a 24 year old Mormon guy. I'm not the best Mormon guy, but I do want to get married in the Mormon Temple. It is what it is. I started having sex when I was 20, and I have been with a number of girls that are Mormon as well, and I have been with a number who are not. I don't know why, but I always enjoyed it more when the girl I was with was also Mormon. The trouble is that the majority of Mormon girls chose to wait to have sex until they are married, and that is awesome. My issue is I want to know if anybody knows of a good way or place to meet Mormon girls that are unopposed to being intimate before marriage. And before anybody lays into me for asking that question, yes, I already know I'm going to hell. Reply to this Question |
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reader, Hikinglou  +, writes (31 October 2009):
I feel your pain... Can't understand why the finer things in life can be a sin... Wasn't there wine at the last supper..
Dated a Mormon gal, great but can't have a relatinship without intamace.. You wont burn in hell. Jesus died for our sins soooo we got the credit... Mormons call their thing the restored version so in the original version the bible says they"ll be no other etc... So many religions out there that say we got it right and they got it wrong.. Hard to say who's gonna burn in hell.. At the end of the day we all worship the same dude...
The wizard of oz was in black and white no need for techno color....
Try hurrydate.com, they have a hurrydate for all walks of life...
When you are 90 years old in your sick bed call up a cathloic priest to your sick bed to grant you ablosulation or what ever it's called..
You'll be fine.. Man was born with free will.. Don't let the church dictate your sex life or what kind of underwear to wear.. If you don't do it, dont do it because you think it's wrong... not doing it because they say doesn't give you much free will you decide try it... The mind is a terrible thing to waist... Science proves that man existed 3000 years ago. I doubt that man of that error where worried about burning in hell. No pun intended.....I'll see you in hell..
Wear a name tag that reads:
hello my name is:
wanna get laid..
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2009): Dude... really? Why mormon girls? If you sleep with them, they'll just trick you into marriage, meeting the family, and other mind-numbing activities. Do like the other mormon men do. Bang anyone you choose (variation- stick with women, of age, not in your family) then go to church on Sunday and pretend you're the most honest, true, chaste, benevolent, virtuous jack mo in the place! Mo's have imaginary friends so why not throw in some performance art while you're at it? Seriously, the reason you can't find many ready to go is they get snatched up fast in SLC. The window of opportunity to get with a rebel mormom chick is small. They party for 2 weeks and then run back into the arms of a questionably hetero RM for an eternity of marriage, boring sex and baby making. Try shooting for a divorced/married mo-mo milf...they're always ready and fun. Reject Provo girls, as they can be a nightmare. They tease and then skip back to happy valley.Happy hunting!
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reader, Leykis101 +, writes (10 September 2009):
 Are you serious??? Try any mormon girl here in the big UTAH!! most hardcore mormon girls were knocked up and dropped out before graduation from high school, dude, almost 80% of the population are mormon, go outside, blindfold yourself, spin around 3 times, then just point, girls are girls, curiosity is natural, a stimulated vagina only needs attention once, then all the heavenly father shit, and waiting for marriage bullshit, lived here almost my whole life!
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reader, q1605 +, writes (9 September 2009):
 Yes. God allows one crazy old white guy per sect to humbly tap the collective pooh nanny. The obedient wives save the back forty to be plowed by him alone. Husbands shuttle the guy through FBI road blocks in the trunk of their cars, and file habeas petitions to overturn rape convictions of other leaders of the church. Good times.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (9 September 2009):
 I think they are ordered by somebody to have a kid every year or so, aren't they?
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reader, q1605 +, writes (9 September 2009):
If I was you I would be more concerned with finding a Mormon women that was willing to have sex after marriage.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2009): I can understand what everyone is saying but to defend the poor guy, even President Hinkley said once that one of the biggest reasons for divorce in the church is sexual incompatibility. Now I'm LDS and I understand our morals and values very well. The problem we face and the problem I've experienced in my past marriage is just that, sexual incompatibiliy. My wife was for lack of a better word, very boring in bed while I'm totally opposite. The problem is how do you know what your getting yourself into before you marry? Well if you find a way to figure this one out let me know.
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reader, Ginalolabridga  + ♥, writes (5 September 2009):
 I dont think you will meet what your looking for because unlike you most Mormons will adhere to their faith, ok some may have fallen by the wayside no one is perfect!
I think you need to re-evaluate your values here you want to get married in the temple, but just as girls should be pure before marriage so should the men.
I feel you have double standards that need questioning.
Gina
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2009): Its a bit hypicritical but i'm gonna sky away from yelling or lecturing. hmmm, being a not so active mormon girl myself I can sort of understand where your coming from, but i'm not sure you'll really ever be able to find what your after unless you have some sort of rader for the other "not so faithfuls" out there or unless you go through the non-active list. I am not active in the church but its still a big part of me even though i have conflicting views; thus you are not alone in your torn-ness between the two worlds. My sitiation regarding sex is that I'm a virgin who doesn't want to sleep around and go to hell but i also don't want to get married just to have sex. I am stuck - virgin for life apparently, ah well - we all have our lot to bare :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2009): Dude,First off you want to get married in a mormon church to a mormon girl but you dont want to stick by the rules of the mormon faith.Sorry but I think my advice is stop lying to yourself, either you have faith or you dont, either you believe in the tenents of the mormon church or you dont. In either case its a personal thing.Why is it so important that she be mormon?Why dont you just rock on with life and settle the bill with the big man/ woman when you actually do pass on?
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reader, softtouchmale2003 + ♥, writes (4 September 2009):
 I agree with q1605.
I have spent a great deal of time out in Nevada and the LDS maintains enclaves there and in other regions of the Southwest.
Most god-fearing Mormon girls are likely to be repulsed by a male who wants to have pre-marital sex. However, the church is like any other church and not all of its adherents fall strictly within the Mormon good-girl mold.
Though I am not a follower of the LDS, I can say that the Mormons I know are relatively speaking very honest people and their beliefs are strong. Maybe you should try and meet a nice Mormon girl first, date her, and propose. Then once you've said your vows, you can both be in the good graces of the Church and not have to worry about looking for sex. Try looking for love instead. Its healthier.
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reader, q1605 +, writes (4 September 2009):
If thee has accepted thy lot in death to be cast into the lake of everlasting fire, what else matters. He wants marriage in my sacred temple? He will be lucky if I allow him to fornicate in the oleander bushes behind the dumpster of my house.
That's what god was saying about you when I shot a round of golf with him last week end. I was telling him to go easy on you until I read this. Now I see his point. You want to bang mormon's. But I guess you want one of the mormon's that saves herself until marriage. So what do we do with the mormon's you defile? If they are no longer good for mormon men are they good enough for the men active in religions that worship pagan idols.
When you think of all the energy spent heating water for showers and for running blow dryer's, these chicks have a pretty big carbon foot print. And you want to nail them a couple of times and then they be cast out like sodomites. Are you the guys that are up there banging all the 12 year old's?
Of course you are... aren't you? Hey I got a twelve year old step daughter down here in Texas. She's perfect for you. I would like to see her marry a guy that has a special relationship with god. Even a pedophile that knows god on a personal level is better than all the hedonistic bastards I see around on any given day.
C'mon down and get her. I'll wait right here. Can't wait to introduce you around to all my friend's and their twelve year old daughters. What's a daughter going for these days. A couple of chickens. Maybe a cow.
We'll spring for the beer and you come on down ya hear?
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reader, marieclaire  +, writes (4 September 2009):
 er i don't think you're going to hell. i think you're being a bit silly. you're mormon and you can't find mormon girls to have sex with, how is anyone else supposed to find them for you
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (4 September 2009):
You could stand out in front of the Temple and pass out flyers. Do the Mormaons have like a newsletter? Maybe you could place an ad.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2009): Sorry, but that's one the funniest things I've ever read. You need to re-think your religious affiliation, because the hypocrisy is so enormous that I, for one, can't take your question seriously. You know, you don't have to have a "God" to be a decent human being, and seriously, if God was a man, (which most people think He was/is), I doubt whether He would have said sex before marriage was a sin. Think about it..... :)
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