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writes:There is this guy I've met last winter (so about 5 months ago). well, we didn't really meet. We were at a bar and kept looking at each other. We took the night bus back home together and he talked to my best friend a little bit while stilll looking at me.Fast foward to today. I went to see a local band I like and that guy was the singer and I didn't know it. (side note. He is not famous or anything. I love underground music and I have a lot of friends in that industry) I know the drummer of that band and he and I talked a little bit. The singer and I still had an intense staring competition and it was clear he remembered me but we didn't talk.However, now, things are different because I now know he is the singer in my friend's band (not close friend though so I can't ask him to set us up) therefore, I know his name and I know we have at least one mutual facebook friend.Now with my question : Can I add him on facebook? If yes, what do I do next? If not, still, what do I do next?
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reader, Serpico  +, writes (4 December 2012):
Please dont live life through facebook or twitter. I have seen very few truly good things come from these sites.
If you like him, maybe you should talk to him, face to face...
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (4 December 2012):
 It's facebook not real life. I have a guy on facebook as a friend who is the DAD of someone I know through someone I know through a group I was a member of. We play games on facebook together... BFD.
go ahead and add him but remember FACEBOOK is not real life.
However don't go hog wild posting on his page or stuff....
and don't be shocked if he doesn't accept your add...
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reader, Jennifer P.  +, writes (4 December 2012):
 Why not ? It's quite clear that he can recognize you so just add him on facebook is not strange at all. And I think he will accept your request for sure. Then, when you have him on facebook just say hi or talk about something that both of you like. Do you like him ? If you do, you can start being his friend and keep in touch with him. You may have an intense staring competition next time if you really want. lol
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reader, Fender  +, writes (4 December 2012):
lol been so many time, however your much lucky then we you know someone that help you guys connected. Remember his a musician, they tend have that seductive charm. Say if his you guys have this staring flirtations things, there a chance are there a strong attractions. You can add him on facebook if you help you get to know him better. personally I would also suggest causally talking to the guy too or even before.
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reader, Snooks92 +, writes (4 December 2012):
I think you should add him as a friend. What do you have to lose? If he accepts your request then leave it a few days and send him a message saying hi and saying you've seen him play and like his music or something. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2012): Its o'k to add him on facebook. But careful with your action once its completed it can never be reverse.
Just don't act desperate and you'll be fine. Go ahead and add him.
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