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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:This is a question that is more directed towards the ladies.I am a nice guy, the funny guy, etc. I do not consider myself bad-looking and I am always hanging around all of the jocks. I myself run track at my school and I went to regionals my freshman year for it. But when it comes to girls I strike out? Whenever I met a new girl I always make her laugh, listen to her, and I try to be perfect. I met a lot of friends this way (including girls) and I always get hugs etc.But when it comes to asking girls out or hooking up, I just can't pull it off? I do not go for the offensive approach and I tend to wait for the girl to show signs, but my last girlfriend said that she wanted me to make a move.What should I do? Step up and start making moves or should I just keep waiting for the girl to show me a sign? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2009): hey, definietly start making moves! you seem to know what you want to do, so go for it. don't try to be perfect; for one, there is no such thing. also, any girls worth your time will not be looking for a guy to be perfect. everyone has quirks that make them unique and interesting. just be you. maybe you need to reflect a bit more about who you are before you will find confidence to make moves or flirt. the more genuine confidence you exude, more girls will be attracted to you. to me, a guy who is comfortable with himself is way more attractive than a guy who tries to be someone he's not. just don't be stuck up or an inflated ego! good luck - you'll be fine!
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reader, mimisoph3 +, writes (9 June 2009):
 if ur good looking,and not shy and a good guy u seem perfect :D..i dont understand how u cant seem to get girls.make the first moves flirt if shes not into u who cares have fun.remember this is reality u might get dumped and u might fall in love u never know just go for it. if u have any questions mail me good luck =)
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