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When I masturbate the day I have sex, I have erection problems. Is this bizarre?

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Question - (29 August 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 29 August 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

does masterbation normally make a man not be able to get erect? i ask this because when i masterbate every day and have sex i cant seem to keep it up but when i dont masterbate a tall it seems to be fine infact its a lot harder so im not sure if i have some bizzare freaky problem or if there are other guys like me ?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2008):

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thanks for your comments i just thought i was some werid freek because ive never heard of any other men like me but ive noticed that when i used to masterbate a lot and look at porn my erections were shit but there a lot better since i dont look at porn or masturbate at all now,my erections are acturally hard now and when i have intercourse it stays harder,the only problem i do have is i only can stay hard for about ten minutes then i get into a semi and i have to have intercourse slowly because if i go fast it always hurts the girls which i hate,ive noticed it gets harder when the bladder is at the fopening of the vagina i think thats kind of odd

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (29 August 2008):

When I run a marathon then I find it really hard to go for my nightly job. But when I don't run a marathon I seem to be able to job much better.

You are just a once a day guy, nothing wrong with it - you just have a limited suply of sperm and testosterone. All men have limits.

Just stop masturbating when you have a girlfriend.

Good Luck!! xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2008):

Not a problem at all. Everyone is different. Some guys can only orgasm and get erect once a day and others can do it 3 or 4 times a day. Some guys need 24 hours recovery and others only need an hour. It is nothing to worry about.

Don't masturbate on days when you are expecting to have sex. Even better, take the day before off too. You will enjoy the sex much better if you have enough time to recover.

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A male reader, hdell United States +, writes (29 August 2008):

Sperm builds up regularly in your genitals. When you masturbate you release that build-up. Thus you can't get an erection because the reason for the erection has been eliminated. Simply hold your sperm for the sex act rather than discharging it by masturbation. You can't have it both ways.

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