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writes:This is based on an earlier question I asked, and I now have better information of what is going on.Again, I've been seeing this one girl for about 2 months now, and its not exactly "dating," but not really "hanging out," either. It's more like, in-between the two (a "date out", I guess you could call it), and I really do like her. We are friends though, however, I would like to see where it goes from here. Heck, we've had some fun by going to get Chinese Food (which was a slight disaster), seeing a live comedic entertainer (which was an amazing night for her), and even met my parents (who are both impressed beyond imagination). The previous problem I had was I wasn't sure that she was either gay or bisexual, but I now know that she is INFACT, Bisexual from a conversation she had with a friend. Now I have the confidence to not walk away, and I'm ready to open the box of "Schrodinger's Cat." I'm ready to ask her if she wants to take it up the next level. Now, my next issue is, when to tell her that I have feelings for her should I...#1... just tell her right now, right away...#2... wait about 6 weeks from now by taking it slow... (that's when we are both on the island with jobs, hense my username), and getting to know each other better, or... #3... wait until the next "date out" we do something fun, and amazing together (so she's happy when I say it)?I just don't want to be too late, and then she finds someone else.The other part to this, is what should I say? What words would be best for this?
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reader, Dear Mandy  +, writes (10 March 2013):
 HI
I feel that relationships like this ( one or both being bi sexual) rarely have a happy ending, because the eye candy is always there to tempt. However if you really want to be with her then I would say go for it now, dont waste time wondering, if she feels the same way then you can have plenty of time to make it work, if not you knoq you can move forward and find a girl that makes you weak at the knees :)
Mandy x
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