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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi everyone I could really do with your help on this situation as it is really getting me down I met a man nearly a year ago now it turned out to be just sex for him I have asked him if we will be together in the future he responded with we will just see what happens anyway here's a bit of background he is eleven years older than me I have asked hinm many times if this bothers him he always says no it doesn't bother me either he was in a long term relationship and he now finds it hard to trust I have told him many times I would like us to be together properly but the other night he started texting me I hadn't saw him for a month and I asked him if I would be seeing him soon he replied with yes so I text him and asked him if he wanted us to be in contact or not cos I got the feeling he didn't want us to be he replied with I do and I don't what do you think he meant by that comment it is really bugging me as to what he meant I haven't text him for a while due to this I really like him he also admitted we would be good together what should I do and any opinions on what you think he meant by that comment would be greatly appreciated thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2012): Is dude Single?
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reader, Tom Obler +, writes (27 January 2012):
 It seems he is just interested in sex with you. That's all, nothing more. If you are not happy with this, then I suggest you end all contact with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2012): It means he'll be in touch as soon as he wants sex again. There's absolutely no relationship in the horizon here with him because he doesn't see you as the type of girl he wants to be with for more than sex.
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (27 January 2012):
 He doesn't want anything but sex from you. He certainly isn't into you at all or he would have pursued a real relationship with you.
I don't mean to sound rude, but from what you write it seems to me that you are a convenient booty call. Every Time you bring up feelings and the future he brushes it off.
Most guy I have talked to (male friends mostly) would not "date" a FWB. Sleep with her yes, date no.
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