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writes:My girlfriend and I have had a very rough patch. We split up but kept talking. She would send 10 messages every day letting me know I was on her mind etc. She's needy and high maintenance I've not minded, I like her that way. Though she's been getting on my nerve because she says we've gotten back together and I don't give her affection nor attention. I've been busy. I care about her. All of the sudden it's like she lost complete interest in me. She doesn't call, doesn't text. Last she was bothered she talked about it a bit but didn't elaborate, said she didn't want me saying she moans too much. What IS up with her? ..Did she meet someone?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2011): I can understand that you have been busy, and she should understand that too, but as you say she is high maintenance, so she has probably figured that your not interested. My brother had a high maintenance girlfriend, who would call him multiple times a day, irregardless of where he was, if he didn't answer every single time she called, she would throw a fit and not speak to him at all for days. Eventually they broke up, she was rediculously selfish and immature (although she was older than me). I would say it sounds like she is just being childish, and playing games to teach you a lesson, to make her the be all and end all in your life. But I am only going by what you have said, I can't say whether she has met someone else, but without anything to go on I would say no, she is just trying to put you through hell. If you want to know you need to try to talk with her, and tell her you will not say anything to accuse her of moaning, you just want to have a calm mature conversation to sort it out. Good Luck
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