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writes:So I met this girl at a rave and we had a good time, we spent the whole night together. Then afterwards we started talking and decided to hang out. So we did and then she told me straight up that she liked me and was getting serious very quickly, I was tense because I was hurt in the past and never had a girl like me this quickly. The day after we talked on the phone but it wasn't like before, we talked less and less. But then there was a day were she told me about her dream and that was in it and she said, it was a perfect dream and that she misses me. Then afterwards I called her and she said she was having a movie night and there was a guys voice in the background. I was really confused, the next day she texted so we can hangout and I agreed but never gave a time. I texted her the day before with the time and no reply and its halfway through the day on the day we were supposed to hang out.Can someone tell me what's the deal with this girl? Does she really like me or is just messed up? Has anyone been in this situation before..
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (4 August 2012):
 I think she may very well like you yes. As for the guys voice in the background well there could have been a gang of them there watching films and also it is early days so you cannot let these things get to you yet. I am assuming if she was trying to hook up with another man she would not be on the phone to you. However yes her not replying to you as off yet is quite strange. But do not get to serious to quickly as I do not want you getting hurt, just take things slowly and see what happens. Hopefully she gets in contact and explains what happened.
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reader, MissTellAll +, writes (4 August 2012):
 She sounds like she isn't really stable. She's very flaky and you met at a rave, so it isn't like she has a very boring lifestyle. I'd say speak to her sparingly if at all from here and tread carefully.
Good luck!
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