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writes:I have a major boy friend problem and need help. I've been with my partner for 4 years. On Saturday night we had a massive row and on Sunday morning we discussed it and in temper I told him it was over. He said fine. I didn't mean and I tried to tell him that but he won't listen. The problem is I own the house he has no where to go so he is sleeping on my couch. On Sunday night I begged him to come into bed and he said it was over and we were better off. Tuesday I sent him a text from work telling him I loved him and wanted to sort things out. when I got home we were civil to each other and he fell asleep. I left a note for him before I went to bed telling him I loved him and wanted him to come to bed with me but he didn't. Wednesday he came home from work full of the chat about work and then just sat down and watched the match. I went off to bed and that was it. Nothing more has been said.Last night he arrived home. I pretented to be in good form. He was chatting away. He then said to me what am I cooking for dinner. I just looked at him blankley and said sorry I'm not your girlfriend anymoie I don't do ur dinner. He just said oh ok and I walked away. He has told me about a place he will look at on Saturday and keeps going on about leaving.I don't know how to fix this situation. He is still on my couch and I want to sort things out but I don't know if he is playing games or he really does want it to finish. I can't even approach the subject now he's so upapproachable at the moment. It's like hes said **** it I'm done but I'm still staying on her couch until I get myself sorted. I feel like I'm loosing my mind going home to a weird atmosphere with him still being there.Any ideas on this weird situation. Is he going to go or is he playing stupid but mean games on meCan some one give me some advice to what is going on here.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (3 April 2009):
You've said you want him back and he's said no.
Give it one last try, sit him down and tell him you really want to work things out with him and get back together.
If he's still not interested then you just have to accept it's over and tell him he needs to go and find someone else's sofa to sleep on.
I'm sorry it's over. You must still be in a state of shock.
But it sounds like you are staying strong and can get over this.
Good Luck!! xx
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