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writes:Not too long ago after graduating from college I went to spend a vacation at a resort. It was planned to be a trip that a few of us were going to do together. In the end none of the others made it. I went alone to the resort.I thought it still would be ok not to mention the sunny weather. On the first evening at the evening party I met a woman who was older than I was. She was still really attractive. We enjoyed talking and hit it off well. We ended the evening dancing. We then planned on meeting the next day.The next day I met her and she introduced me to her two children. They seemed nice. She mentioned that she was a single mother. After meeting the children she took them to their activities. They have activities for children to do. Then we spend some time together. We enjoyed talking and swimming. I have to say that she looked really hot in her bathing suit.In the days following they had day activities for children which her kids loved doing. That left us to do other planned activities that were more geared towards adults. We had a fun time spending time together and doing the activities. We went to the evening parties together and enjoyed talking and doing some kissing.On the afternoon before the day that I was to leave her children went to their activity. We were walking towards our planned activity and then she asked if I would rather go to her room and have a drink and talk instead of going on the group activity. I said that would be fine. We went to her room and ended up having sex.It was really good. I enjoyed being with her. It was passionate. When I left the next day she gave me her contact information. Now I would really like to see her again. I would like to go to visit her. She said that I was invited to visit her. She did not say anything about what we would be doing or not doing if I visited her. In addition to spending time with her I would really like to have sex with her again. How should I be clear about what I would like to do if I visited her? How can I tell her that I want to have sex with her again? Should I write her a letter, note, e-mail, or call her? What could I say that would be a sexy way of expressing my desire?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2022): 35 and still with the training wheels. Looking back, if I had sex with a date it was a given we'd have sex on the next date. Some would spell that out on the phone, which was fine -- we already crossed that line and was reassuring he wanted me again.
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reader, Youcannotbeserious  + ♥, writes (2 February 2022):
 Given that you have already "been there", I think it will be a given that you will be having sex if you go to see her again.
If you want to prepare the way, why not talk dirty to her when you speak? Tell her you've been thinking about her, are looking forward to seeing her again and tell her what you want to do to her body, how you want to kiss it, stroke it, caress it. Ask her to tell you what she would like you to do to her.
Whatever you do, DON'T say/write "I want to have sex with you again". That is just naff and would probably be a complete turn off.
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