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female
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anonymous
writes:HI,there is this friend,i am close with her since the first day of college, and we used ot see each other every day,etc.Then after 4 months lets say, we kinda got bored of each other. And she always kept on inviting me to go out with the other,etc. An di used ot invite her as well.Then when we kidan got bored of each toher,we spoke to each other,and she said how it is just how we see each other too much,like every day adn every hour,etc. So i was like ok,we can see each other less. But hte problem is now that she is being so fake. Adn she doesnt invite me anymore,and now the others are like to me' hey why dont we see you anymore??' ,etc. So i dont know what is going on.And every time im near her,he goes to any guy and sits in a lap ,etc. Now she hangs out with this guy all the time,with who i hooked up before and i was really good friends with him. But then SHE said soemthing to him who knows what,so we dont hang out that much anymore.I know this is not nice, but most people thinks she acts kind of sluty sometimes and she keeps on talking about people.Not sure what to do now? Like i still wanna hang out with her i think,but she keeps on changing,being fake and similar. ANy advise?Thank you xxx Reply to this Question
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (19 January 2013):
 But why do you want to keep hanging out with her ?
You say you got bored with each other. Plus, you think she is slutty and gossipy, and anyway you don't like the way she acts when you are around . She may not like you anymore, but you don't like her either, it's mutual.
So why would you have to cling to her rather than letting this friendship die of natural death ?
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