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30-35,
anonymous
writes:There is this guy I like. well i think i do i feel like i am scared to like him. cause i dont want to be hurt. My first boyfriend lied about having sex with me to his friends i found out and cut him out my life then i liked a well known player who messed with my head and called me names cause i would not do anything to him. Now i have class with this new guy he seems nice well spoken and confident. I dont know to much about him tho except he has admitted to physical attraction to me. But everytime we make plans to meet up I would have to work or just cancel because i am scared. of dating again. I just dont know what to do should i go out jus to hang with him somewhere or just close off my life?
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (16 May 2010):
 For the time being,neither one.Don't close off your life. You have been hurt in the past-that's life. Everybody has got some emotional scar. The past is past.and does not need to influence your future if you don't allow that. Life begins always from now on.Anyway,I would not rush into something with this new guy. Like you said ,you do not know much about him except that he is physically attracted to you. Big deal. You ARE attractive, whether you look like a model,or not . You are 18 to 21 and you have the intrinsic charm,grace and sensuality of your age. I guess you need something more than just external validation of that.If you like him, take things slow. very slow. Get to know him better, to know more about him, to find out if he feels "right " to you. If he gets impatient with this process- easy then : he is not right for you.
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