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*auseyouloveme28
writes:hi, im 17 years old, and im just starting to go out with this guy, we've only been on 2 dates, and the other day he told me he was a bad kisser, and the sad thing is that im a bad kisser also.so what should we do if we dont know what we're doing?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2008): Chill out =D This may be a good thing, when you kiss for the first time it may feel a bit strange, but after a while you adapt to each others way of doing it. If you bump teeth etc, laugh about it and try again. Practice makes perfect. Not everybody kisses the same, so even if you were the best kisser in the world, you wouldn't be perfect when you kiss somebody new. And who says you are a bad kisser? What is a bad kisser? Again everybody is different and there is no right or wrong way of doing it! Just relax, and everything will be okay =D good luck and enjoy! xxx
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reader, PeterPan  +, writes (7 June 2008):
 It's kind of funny (in a sad kind of way): perception is the strongest part of expectation. In other words, stop telling yourself (him too) that you're bad kissers! You know what? Your two (so called) negatives when brought together might make a positive... Don't start something telling yourself you can't do it -- THINK POSITIVE! And in my opinion, that's sound advise for nearly anything (beyond the current kissing question).
So, as a suggestion to improve technique: go rent a stack of romantic movies and study... bring your guy... let him study too! Call it a social experiment!
...and above all -- have fun!! Who cares if you're doing it wrong! Wrong by who's standard? His ex and yours? Are they standing along side you guys ready to flip numbered cards to evaluate your performance? No! Do let them haunt you!
So, go floss, brush the teeth, a little mouthwash and start practicing! Practice, practice, practice... :)
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