A
male
age
26-29,
*onfusedguy1
writes:Hey there we broke up 3 month ago ,, i cant get over him , he already did i moved in my life , but i still love him and keep thinking of himany way i have a lot of spams on my e-mail and i receive a lot of junk mail ,, so he got e-mail from me , which i didnt send it the e-mail is just about sales promotion for electronic stuff he got it on my name so he replied me back , are you doing online sales now hope all well with u ? shall i write him back , or just say its spams or no just leave it and if i wanna write him , what shall i say ,,or can i ask to meet him i miss him ,
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reader, quiet-echo  + ♥, writes (28 October 2009):
 Keep it light and brief.
'No. I think it's some kind of spam. All is good here and I hope the same with you.'
That is polite, friendly and open ended enough that he can feel free to respond, yet it doesn't sound clingy or desperate.
Strong recommendation: if you resume contact, resist the urge to discuss your feelings or the relationship. Assume it's over. If he thinks some heavy, emotional, guilt laced conversation is lurking around the corner, he'll avoid you.
A
female
reader, Jayney Y + ♥, writes (28 October 2009):
 I'd just not answer, unless you want to rekindle the freindship and you're happy to be just friends. :)
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