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writes:can you help me by telling me what to say to a boy that i like but he doesnt know that i like him.... everytime i call him i just say hello and there is a big pause after that because i dont know what to say. remember that he doesnt know i like him. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2010): Try getting to know him in a less face-to-face manner. Getting closer to someone online or via text is much easier. Especially if you like them. Talk to him a lot via AIM, or facebook, or myspace. Text him just to see how his day is going. Become close friends with him and show him how amazing you are. This will make you more comfortable with him overall. Then, when you feel a little closer with him, start calling him and having called convos. Then, gradually, you should feel totally comfortable speaking to him face-to-face.
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reader, hmm152 +, writes (1 June 2010):
if you struggle to find things to say to him, u need to find some common ground, or have an experience together so that u can both chat about something u shared. if u think about conversations we have with our friends, theyre normally about things that have happened in the past, things that will happen in our circle in the future, people we know etc. if u don't know someone well, u will struggle to find something to talk about. why not try and get him to go somewhere with u or do something - i don't know... say u went to the movies for example. if u see him again, u can talk about the film, other films coming out, the actors in the film, people u saw at the cinema, the list goes on. u obviously really like this guy and thats why youre finding it difficult, the more time u spend with him, the more you will get to know him and the more relaxed you'll become. then conversation will just naturally flow. good luck.
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reader, iloveyhoo +, writes (1 June 2010):
 well either face to face or online or text just get to know him more. when he asks why you dont speak much just say im a shy person, and thats why i prefer when people make conversation with me because otherwise it just gets awkward.
my only advice is take it one step at a time. good luck
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (1 June 2010):
 If he shares a class with you, ask him if he has time after class to help with homework. If he doesn't, that's even better. Tell him what interests you about him, whether it's his eye color, his hair or his lips. Basically, you want to know more about him because something about him intrigues you. Always find one thing to compliment on.
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