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writes:There is this guy i love him soo much, we used to be soo close. we started saying we were together a while ago now but there is a huge age gap of 11years and it is hard for him to love me because he is used to living with his girlfriends, and as im 15 and he is 26 we cant live or even see each other in public! we work together and now he cant even look me in the face and say hello or talk to me. He wont reply to my txts emails, and when im home alone i always txt him to see if he wants to come ova and talk about things but he doesnt txt back or come ova. i miss him sooo much. i just miss eveything about him! he was always there for me now ive got no-one, because i cant tell anyone becoz of our age and stuff. i just need help on wat to do becoz i hav no idea wheather i should just say thats it its ova or just wait for him to make up his mind?? HELP!? Reply to this Question
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reader, Collaroy +, writes (22 October 2007):
 I hate to be a spoilsport mate, but here in our country (Australia ) he would go to jail for child molestation if he were found to be having a relationship with you.
I imagine that's what is putting him off. If you really care about him, maybe you will accept that he doesnt want to go to jail for "love".
If he already has had sex with you , he may be very worried that it will get out and the police will follow soon. Moreover, he will be very scared that you might tell someone - something I suggest you do! I say this only because of your age and that you suggest that there is some history in the relationship - so potentially he was with you at a younger age.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionbut also the only txts i get from him r ones that say:
i love you :)
that is all they say and that is like twice everyeday, so he reminds me that he loves me but i wont show it wat does that mean then?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2007): Have you actually done anything together to constitute actually 'going out' with him?
I know this might sound harsh, but if he isn't replying to your emails and texts, then there isn't a lot more you can do.
Talk to him when you see him, and ask if he wants anything to do with you or not, and if he says no, you have to leave it. I know you might not believe it, but at 15 it is so easy to fall 'in love' with someone, and I just hope he hasn't abused the fact that he is older than you and you are still a child, to have some sort've influence.
Please don't waste your childhood over your feelings for him.. I know it's hard but please try and move on.. it's for the best.
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