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writes:HiMy friend saw my bf's profile in dating site few days back and she told me about this yesterday. and i went and checked and saw his profile there, when i asked him about it, he said he's just checking what's out there.Now he has blocked my number in his mobile. Its really insulting when he is the one who did a mistake and then he blocks my number. I didnt even call him more than twice after the fight.I dont want to feel this way, but i feel insulted and cheated on. Please help me Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2011): He was just using you to avoid loneliness. The fact that he blocked your number says it all. He wanted to get out of the relationship but didn't want to leave until he can find another girl. You caught him in his act and he cannot man up to admit his action to you so he blocked you cowardly.
Leave him alone. Go find someone who wants to be with you.
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reader, PerhapsNot +, writes (15 December 2011):
 You will feel insulted and cheated on for a while until you rebuild yourself. Since he has blocked you from his cell phone, it is best if you remove his number and never contact him again. He was "checking what's out there" while he was with you. You were his home-girl; someone he could always fall back on while he was looking for a better deal online and probably in real-life too. Now he had found someone or multiple women and he has decided they're a better deal than you. You got dumped and you need stay away from this asshole.He can't be bothered and answer your calls. He's spending a lot of time and effort with his "new options" right now. He doesn't want you anymore. It's time to hang out with your girls and block his number. Chances are he will be calling you when it fails with the new girl/girls and want you back.....while he still looks for other women.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2011): Hes not serious about you, move on. By blocking you he has made his position clear. You are not the one for him.You deserve so much better than him. Get the best revenge by not letting have any influence over you. At the moment you are hurt and looking for answers he is not willing to give. When or if he comes seeking you out give him the heave ho.
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reader, thinkb4  +, writes (14 December 2011):
He is avoiding you because he is guilty of cheating or attempting to. He has been caught. You "HAVE" been insulted and cheated on. If you want to carry on in the relationship, its your choice, but I would think very carefully.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2011): He is too embarassed and ashamed to face you. He did not make a mistake, he did it on purpose. Mistakes are not meant. Joining dating sites are done with intent. I wouldnt waste your energy on him. He is not to be trusted. If you are simple enough to want him back then repent at leasure.
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