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writes: i really like this girl i met online. she lives in a same town as me so it's not hard to meet as we live close, but i've never met her.i told her she was beautiful in the picture she replied with your so sweet, thanks, etc and since than she was talkin really sweet and more nicely.i think she may like me as well, she's seen my picture as well but i'm only judging by the way she was talkin online.i want to meet her, should i ask her to go to the cinema or somewhere else for a first date but i dont want to mention the word date!if she accepts maybe she likes me because a girl would not accept for no reason.Any ideas how I can go about askin this? What places do you guys recommend for two 16 year olds to go to know each other?it's so hard to get the courage to ask, someone just tell me what to do lol. thanks alot
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reader, TasteofIndia  + ♥, writes (8 April 2007):
 Hi sweetness,
Since you two met online, I'd suggest meeting somewhere really public the first time. It will ease any anxiety she (and her parentss!) may have about her meeting a guy online. Maybe suggest dinner together? Miniature golf? The movies would be alright, but you probably want to TALK and get to KNOW each other, right? Go to a sporting event together, maybe!
As for how you ask her, one of these days just say, "hey, I really like talking to you online and if you're not doing anything on Saturday I'd love to take you out to dinner."
Or something like that.
You'll be fine, sweetness. Just remember that she has a family who might be a little wary of her meeting with a guy online. If they're really not into the idea, maybe you could invite her and her family over to your house to dinner with you and your family?
Enjoy, sweetness! Sounds like you're a gentleman.
xxIndia
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reader, shawn styles  + ♥, writes (8 April 2007):
If you do decide to go on a date with her I would advise that you meet up in a public place at first so that you both feel comfortable. Also tell your parents where you are going and make sure that she does the same. I would start by going on a walk somewhere with nice scenery such as a park, the beach or by a lake/river. If this isn't possible where you live or because of the weather you could go to an art gallery or a museum (Most are free so money won't be a problem). Both of these suggestions require you to talk to each other face to face and get the conversation going.After this if you are getting on, find somewhere nice and get some lunch/dinner together. Don't make it too posh this isn't necessary for a first date.Once you have finished your meal you could go bowling, see a film at the cinema or go to the arcades. Again this depends on where you live. The only problem with the cinema is that once the film starts you don't have much of a chance to talk to each other.Finally, always offer to walk her home. If she says yes and you are getting on try slipping your hand into hers to test how she feels. When you get to her house thank her for a good date, say you had a nice time and give her a hug and a kiss on the cheek. Exchange telephone numbers (if you haven't spoken on the phone beforehand, but really you should arrange the date by phone)and if you say you are going to call her the next day, make sure you do because otherwise she will lose interest.Good luck on your date.Shawn Styles x x x
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