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writes:How would you classify the terms "Soulmate"? What does it mean to you, do you think you can have more than one? Reply to this Question
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reader, sammi star  +, writes (20 November 2010):
 This is such an interesting question and I hope there are many answers as I've often thought about this myself. I'm not sure I believe in the idea that there is one perfect person for everyone so I love odds answer that your soul mate is made not born, that's a lovely way of looking at things.
I think that if you meet someone who is your truly your best friend aswell as your lover then you must be on the right track.
I look forward to hearing others opinions!
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reader, Odds  +, writes (20 November 2010):
 No such thing. But that's a good thing.
There are millions of people out there who would make great lovers or spouses. Any of them could work, all of them will take effort. But that's the beauty of it. When you meet one, and coose to be with them, there's no risk you're missing out on your one chance at happiness. You've just picked one chance over another.
Some people will make the wrong choice, usually in their haste to make any choice at all, but most people use "soul mate" as an excuse to leave a decent person whose only crime was to be a little boring.
You "soul mate" is made, not born. Find a good person and experience life with them.
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reader, Fatherly Advice + ♥, writes (20 November 2010):
 I'm interested in seeing what others write. But, after 22 years I would say that when you are two halves of a whole, then you are close. When it doesn't matter that the sex wasn't fantastic. When you aren't really interested in cheating. When you aren't really worried about what your partner is doing when they are away. When you feel better just because they are there. When you complement each other without competing. Then you are touching it.
Yes you will both feel it.
I'd like to add that I don't think this question can be answered by anyone who hasn't been married to the same person for 20 years. At your age highly compatible is as good as it gets.
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reader, CupidsPrincess1 +, writes (20 November 2010):
TBH, I don't know. Even I wonder what is meant by a soul mate and how do you recognise one.
Now, I know a person whom I know very little about in person. But I know that he is wonderful and very lovable and I feel very connected to him. I love him heart in heart. I have no idea about his feelings for me and do not think we would have a relationship. Yet, all I can think of is a lot of good for him. Years after, I know that I would keep wondering of him and would jealous of the woman he might be in love with.
He might be my soul mate and so could be my BF because the guy lives for me. Who would tell me for sure? Is it necessary that whom you think/feel is you SM should feel the same about you? How would I know when I find mine?
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