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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:The last time I spoke to him was about 5 weeks ago and he basically said he's loosed/confused/ frustrated on what he wants. So, I told him that he needs space to clear his head and figure things out because me being in the picture is not gonna make things better. he didnt want to do thy at first but then at the end of our convo he agreed that that was best. I'm always sad cause of how I feel about him; I go out sometimes and try to distract myself, but I'm still down at the end of the day. I really knows he needs this time to himself and I've always knew that because we both had relationships before we met each other. But my question is (coming from a guys perspective), how long do you think I should wait for him to clear his head? Like should I hit him up when I feel like I can't wait anymore?
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reader, Dayzee  +, writes (16 March 2013):
Do you want the guy to love you and really want to be with you or myeah? maybe?
Move on. I think he already has.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2013): If it is really bothering you try to get a resolution from this man now. If it cant happen tell him good bye and start looking again for Mr. right. You have been more than patient now start looking out for yourself.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (16 March 2013):
 After 5 weeks of no contact, I'd consider it over and done and move on.
If he changes his mind later on and your free... you can rethink it... if you are not free, well he will learn a valuable lesson.
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