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writes:helloI am kind of confuse with this guy i am dating, he does everything to please me, we have never fight, we have develop feelings for eachother, he is always trying to see how am I feeling ( because I have a little bit of bad health), he even told me that he cares a lot about me and that he has never like someone as he likes me, but at the same time he told me once that he doesn't got involved very seriously with someone because of the fears of responsability and the fears of breaking up. The thing is that we are exclusive with eachother, and with out that comment that he told me. He call me very often, and we enjoyed eachother really well. The thing is, so this guy in my opinion is acting like in a boyfriend/girlfriend relashionship, so I don't understrand why he would say that he doen't want anything serious. I am not looking now for a marriage. In this case I also though that if this guy is not inlove with me now, he is in his way too. So what everybody thinks about this? Other detail we have only been dating for around 4 months Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2008): im in the exact same situation. me and my guy have been together 6 months and he wants to break up cuz he is afraid of commitment and doesnt want either of us getting hurt than we already are going to. the advice someone gave me was to tell him "im really enjoying the time we spend together. i care a lot about you and i know things might seem intense since we've gotten very close, but please dont let that scare you. lets just enjoy eachothers company and see where this goes with no pressure,ok?" im going to try it so let me know how it works out for you! best of luck!!!!
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