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*asper94
writes:Hello everyoneI'm Jasper, i'm 18 years old and live in Belgium.A month ago I broke up with my girlfriend after begin together for a year and three months. When we were together i had periods of nausea and after a while I discovered that anxiety/stress was causing this. I am still not sure what the exact cause of the anxiety was, but I just had to get out of that relationship.I thought that we just were not meant to be. After thinking very long and hard I knew that she just wasn't the right girl for me. It wouldn't work in the future. She made me very happy, but unfortunately she was not 'the one'.After the breakup I felt very bad, because i knew how much i hurt her..Now after a month I don't feel constantly nauseous anymore. Sometimes i have it for a day or two and then it just fades away. I get nauseous from thinking about her. Sometimes in the morning when i just woke up, i catch myself thinking about her and it makes me nauseous for the rest of the day. What is wrong with me? Do I regret my decission? Or do I feel bad for hurting her? I have been thinkng a lot and it doesnt help me. I hope that you guys could give me a fresh opinion.
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reader, BondGirl72  +, writes (10 August 2012):
 I had a boyfriend like that. The mere thought of him made me so anxious that I literally felt sick. It just wasn't meant to be. Then I was in the unfortunate position where I had to see him every day for awhile. It was terrible.
You broke up with her for a reason. I know you were sorry to hurt her, but you did the right thing. You cannot stay with someone who makes you sick.
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reader, no nonsense Aidan  +, writes (10 August 2012):
If you did not want to be in a relationship with this girl anymore, you did the right thing being honest. Sometimes people can’t always put in to words why something’s not right, they simply know that it is. How exactly did you conclude that anxiety was the cause of this nausea? Has this been diagnosed by a doctor? If not, you should go and see one about this. Stress may indeed be the cause but that should be confirmed by a doctor.
I wish you all the very best.
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