A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:What is this girl thinking? She found out I like her, I admitted it to her now since we haven't really spoken With eye contact. She may talk but doesn't smile. We were great friends for 2 years. She is very shy. Should I ask her out or does she not like me? I don't know wot to do next so help!!!
View related questions:
shy Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, DoubleM  +, writes (7 March 2008):
 Be absolutely certain that you will be happy if she says, "No." Be totally prepared for such rejection, but do not consider it rejection - consider it HER loss. Get your mind right about it, be ready to say, "Okay, fine," and then ask her if she would like to join you and a couple of friends to some fun activity. Then, whatever happens, be confident, non'chalant, happy! If no, smile, nod and walk away with your head held high and forget about it. If yes - smile, nod and say, "Good. We'll have fun! See you there." Do not ever be scared of a girl, okay?
|
