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writes:I had a bit of a cuddle and a snog with a girl I know from my athletics club on a group night out a few nights ago. We have done this before, about a year ago. She seems shy and we haven't ever spoken about it or taken things further. To be honest it wasn't exactly fireworks for me this time around and we haven't spoken to each other since.The following evening I was out again and met someone else and we really did hit it off. She kissed me and it felt amazing. I saw her again last night and it was really good, though I think we were both a bit nervous.What is the etiquette regarding the girl I wasn't so keen on?Also, as I'm getting increasingly excited about the new girl I've met I'm noticing that my eyes and mind are wandering onto other women - basically I've got the unstoppable permahorn! This always happens and it's pretty confusing - do I not want this girl who I've got so excited over? I don't know whether my feelings for her are just my imagination running riot, or whether she genuinely has qualities I love and admire. I'm worried it's all a bit of fantasy. How can I regain control over my reactions and see things more calmly, rationally, realistically and practically? Thanks!
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reader, Jen86 +, writes (6 May 2008):
ok the first girl was most likely a drunken kiss and cuddle. The 2nd girl has got ur hormones running riot. YES u are attracted to her no doubtabout it and yr imagination is running riot with the other women. Ur sub concious is probably seeing the 2nd girl. See her again and don't have any alcohol! Then ull se things more rationally. When love skyrockets out of control go with it!
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