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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I went out with this guy a couple of months ago and we really enjoyed being together. As I got to know him more, I found out that we had a lot in common. I have hinted to him that I would like to be more than just friends but he said that he just wants to be friends. I still hang out with him at his place alone and we do stuff that "friends" probably would not do. He always asks me to give him a massage or stroke his head (he likes to be touched) and he does not wear very much when I do it to him. I really enjoy making him feel good and would like to make him feel good in other ways that would be off limits right now. He really does enjoy my company as we have lots to talk about. I do not know if he is just scared of being in a relationship because he is afraid of being rejected down the road or what. He is really reserved and lives alone, does not go out much because he is studying all the time since he is a premed student. He is really sweet, polite, hardworking and honest and I find those qualities attractive. I am premed as well and study all the time and never go out. What is the deal with this? Reply to this Question
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reader, dearkelja +, writes (23 January 2008):
 I think you friend is focusing on his education right now. I knew a pre-med guy in college, same deal. He didn't want to date as he felt it could make him loose site of his goal. I don't see anything wrong with the relationship you have now. Just enjoy it.
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