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female
reader, stephxd  +, writes (23 July 2010):
First base: Kiss/makeout
Second base: Feeling up,touching eachother
Third base: Blowjob(head),Handjob,Finger,Eatingout (Ew!)
Fourth base (Homerun): SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX! :D
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2010): to go to second base you feel him up. that means stroking and holding his penis or balls while he holds your breasts or stokes your vajaja.
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female
reader, Shiro'-'Nosuke +, writes (15 March 2010):
 first is kissing second is feeling over clothing 3rd under clothing homerun sex. i dont care how they do it in
Australia! thats how we do in america and btw just bcuz ur a virgin dont mean u dont know this
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male
reader, spiazo  +, writes (6 July 2009):
Are all of u STUPID.
WTF is all this first base: kissing,making out
second base: feeling over clothing
third base: feeling under clothing
home base: sex SHIT!!!! i dont know were u guys come from.
dude.
First base: hooking up
Second base: fingering or handy
Third base: getting blowjob or cleaning out a chick
Fourth: sex
if she wants to go second, shes saying she wants u to get into her pants, well thats what it means in Australia i don't know were all these little virgins got there info from, but wen going second find the girls clit and her g- spot research them all something. the g spot is on the top of the vagina once you re inside its in the direction of the belly button. and the clit is kinda hard to explain, just research it or somthing. the clit and g-spot are the girls pleasure points once u master them youll have a pro sex life. like me :). i know alot for a 14 year old :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2009): Think of it in this way.
The four F's
1)French
2)Feel(in the shirt or over it)
3)Finger
4)Fuck
its that simple
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2008): i no the bases as
1st make out
2nd guys hand up girls shirt
3rd girls hand down guys pants
4 sex
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2008): this is how i know the bases
1st-Kissing, pashing (tongue action)
2nd-feeling, over or under the clothes doesn't really matter
3rd-oral, sucking, 'eating her out'
Home run-Sex
if u are both ready then i'd say go for it
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2008): Well its like oral sex just not with the mouth
just strock her areas with your hand. ant the right time.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2008): 1st is french kissing
2nd is feeling up the shirt and inside the panties without hand penetration.
3rd is inside the panties with hand penetration and oral.
4th is sex.
There is another base called home run - this is anal penetration.
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2008): I will never get that old-fashion american dating-culture, were the female pretends that she are not interested at all of body contact, she just PAYS for wine and dine. It sickens me!Anyway. If you are really nice and polite on a date, the girl might be so kind that she LETS YOU kiss her. (first base)If you have been dating for a while, she might be so kind that she will let you touch her breasts over the clothes (second base). Notice that this is nothing SHE want you to do, just something she will let you do to be nice.When you have been dating for a few years and are practically married, the girl might go to oral sex (in this case, SHE sucks you, you don´t do anything). This is third base and does just exist because she shall not get pregnant (and in the US, birth control is a no no!).When you are married and ready for a child (or in date number 3 if the girl is a sinful slut), you can go home run and have sexual intercorse.Notice that females NEVER wants to have any kind of this, it is just their kind of payment for wine and dine and you being polite to them!This is how it is in american dating-culture.As everyone knows, that´s just bulls*t- females are just as horny as males. And that´s why the dating-culture are so WICKED!
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2008): first base: kissing,making out
second base: feeling over clothing
third base: feeling under clothing
home base: sex
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2007): it means getting a feel
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2007): hello
i think you children would like to know what the bases are.
they are
1st-playing the sims and listening to music.
2nd-looking at posters
3rd-sex with unice bates
and home is- doing the laundry with that special someone ;)
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2007): First is kissing, making out, with or without tongue...Second is anything with hands-hand job, findering, feeling up...Third is anything with mouth-blow job, oral, 'eating out'...Home base is going the whole way (having sex)
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2007): first-making out
second-feeling up
third-hand, head, fingering
fourth-sex
last year me and my best friend went to second base last year
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2007): ok hi everyone im 14 and me and my boyfriend are at 2nd 3rd base. basically hes felt me . i think that there are 5 bases because otherwise you move to fast so yea here they are - -
Fisrt - Hugging and pecking
Second - Pashing and him touching your boobs and body ontop of your clothes
Third - Him touching your body under clothes or without clothes (example - your boobs belly, vagina)
Fourth - fingering, hand job then blowjob . . .
Home - SEX!!!!!
Me and my bf are going good and were at around about third base i dont think it matters how old you are as long as your comfortable with ewhat your doing. Im a teachers daughter so . . . it just depends . . .
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2007): first base is kissing
second base is making- out
third base is touchy touchy feely feely
and home run is sex
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2007): hey um 2nd base is kissing/making out3rd base is "touchy feely"And home base is sex
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female
reader, jenn  +, writes (13 August 2007):
First base:kissing making out
second base:feeling each other up
third base: givig head blow job hand job etc.
home run: sex
I would like to say to not rush things and wait for that specal person and make sure that both of you are ready for the base that you are at
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2007): second base is when you touch or feel a girl this is usualy done when kissing her.move your hand slowly to her shoulder and then down to her breast grap it gently and if her reaction is positive keep going.you can also ask her to show you how she would like you to feel them so both of you are comfirtable with it...
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2007): hey this is how i see the basses
1=kissing
2=feeling up(usually feeling girls breasts with or without top on)
3=Fingering blow job or hand job
4=sex
just a few days ago me and my bf(we are both 13) decided to go to 2nd base we talked about it first and told each other what 2nd base entailed for us and we agreed this is a big step in a realationship and you should only do it if you love the person like i love my bf. i wish you luck and happiness!!!
anon
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2007): Okay so jsut a little correction:
There are Four bases.
Ist: Kssing / pashing
2nd: Feeling up, usually touching boobs etc.
3rd: oral sex
Home base, home run.. : All the way, sex.
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female
reader, debbieanner  +, writes (10 February 2007):
you are 14 years old and i will not lie to you 1st base is kissing and making out2nd base ia kissing making out and some under the top action touching your boobs and kissing your neck3rd base is going all the way ie having sexi would say even at my age (26)2/3rd base is a no no unless you have been dating for a few years but at the end of the day its up to you but if you are thinking about going to 2nd base go to a family planning clinic the information is confindental no one will know you have been not even your doctor and ask for advice and they will tell you what you need to know about sex or if you need any more advice e mail here.
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2007): i am just 14 and i know that it is time to move to second base when BOTH partners are in agrement with it otherwise just forget it.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2007): Second base is basically making out so i think you should give ur love one a hint that you want to progress to "2nd" by flirting more or sitting closer together. Just small hints takes you a long way.
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female
reader, Smiler +, writes (29 June 2006):
 Hey Sweetie
Well here's the terms that i know them as ok :o)
First base is usually kissing
Second base is usually touching, over clothing
Third base is usually touching under clothes or without clothes
Home run is usually sex
but never try to push someone to go to any base that they are not comfortable with and be sure that you are also comfortable too this is something you shouldn't try to rush take it at your own pace and enjoy yourselves :o)
I hope my advice was of help to you in this situation :o) and good luck with it. If you ever need a friendly chat of shoulder to cry on or just more advice I'm always here for you
You Take Care X
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female
reader, tyler's_cowgirl +, writes (29 June 2006):
 First Base - Kissing
Secondn Base - Touching (on top of the clothes)
Third Base - Touching, Kissing (without clothes) oral sex
Home - Sexual Intercourse
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female
reader, Jadzia1127 +, writes (29 June 2006):
 The terms you are referring to are as follows:
First base-Kissing
Second base-Touching, some refer to this also as 'to cop a feel'
Third base- Petting or Touching under clothes or without clothes
Home run-Sex
If these are terms are actually the ones your girlfriend is using in your relationship then it is usually a sign she doesn't know what she is doing, not knowing what she is asking for and not ready to get involved in 'going the bases'.
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male
reader, bribri5 +, writes (29 June 2006):
hey there dont panic, has she said shed like to go to second base with you if so why not allow her to show you ehat her second base is, second base is uauly when your allowed to touch the girls chrst over the clothes mind put just let it happen dont plan it and it willl be a good step for yous also try building a relatioinship with this girl and once thats there youll be able to talk about sex and relationships togther it helps relations grow but remember you need to be 16 to have sex so please be careful in every sence of the way iam not going to say you shouldnt be having any type of sexual contact but take care and be careful and do it when your ready doesnt make you any less of a man thanks bribri5
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