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writes:I need to know if this is normal and what i should do about it? Im 28 and live with my dad and up until about 6 months ago my pretty serious boyfriend of like 5+ years lived 1.5 miles away. I would spend the night there every night. Then he got a new job about 10 hours away that he needed to take to get out of debt. I have been fine up until about a week ago. I visited him the weekend and it was all good. Now im home again and i cant eat, sleeping not well, im always shaky, nervous, nauseous, have a pit in my stomach, and my heart hurts. Im having a hard time working. Why is this first hitting me now!? I did not think i was an emotional person! Am i just incredibly missing him?! How do i fix this? My legs are getting weak it seems from not eating as much as i usually do. i have to make myself eat. I hope it goes away, and if it does, will it happen all over again when i get to see him again? it is usually about 3 weeks apart that i see him. I have told him about this and he thinks it is weird also because he knows me. I eventually plan on moving there but that might be 3-6 months yet. I duno if i am nervous about that or just missing him incredibly! Even when i hand with my family i still feel the same way! It is driving me crazy!
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reader, rcn +, writes (26 January 2008):
 Go to a doctor. It sounds as if your experiencing anxiety. It's not something that happens over night, it's a build up of many things that compile and create this feeling. You're being away from him might be the thing that's piled on top of everything else.I'd go and seek some help with that. Psychology is a good move. You can learn techniques to break down the issues that are causing this. Take care.
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reader, nailglitter18  +, writes (26 January 2008):
 Are you feeling like this because you're missing him? You can usually tell, because the feeling gets more intense when you think about him.
I felt like that too when I first had to face the long distance relationship that I'm in now. If it gets bad, you might want to see a doctor, or a psychologist to see if there's anything you can do.
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