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writes:i dont know what to do i have been with this guy for 8 months and he seems to have less and less time for me as the relationsip goes on??he says he is bussy in all because he works, skate boards and is tying to open hit own company? he will not let me go to his house because he says his roomates dont let him have company/ none of them have company because they have had some pricie ideams stolen by girls?i have meet his mom and dad!!he tells me he wants to spend the rest of his life with me??i just dont know what to do because its seems like there is something else going on???he tells me i come first but i have never seen it??never been out on date only gone to two movies and he falls asleep all the time we are together and he just says its because he is tired from all the work he does each and every day??he has problems answering his phone the list just goes on and on help help helpi dont know what to do it just seems that the longer this goes on it gets worse i need some advise and some help asap before i get hurt any more then i am now thanks????? Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (9 June 2008):
A lot of the things you describe as his faults can actually be explained away.
His no girls at home rule is fair enough, and his busy schedule can explain the rest. I don't think he is intentionally doing things wrong.
However, it's not much of a relationship to be in. So you have to decide whether to stay with him and put up with it or leave and hope he'll either change to win you back, or that you'll find someone who has the time to give you the attention you need.
Good Luck!! xx
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