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36-40,
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writes:sorry but i was just wondering what going on if a guy says to me that 'oh, we should go out whenever', then when i reply 'yea', he seems to forget that and doesn't mention it again? do i seem desperate or too interested in him? i'm not sure if i'm interested in him even, but i had some feeling that maybe there was something going on, but now i'm totally not sure if that's the case at all! like we are still communicating coz we work together, but was he just being friendly, as in sociable, then? did i seem as though i was actually interested in him or something? should i just forget about this and leave it as a silly misunderstanding? Reply to this Question
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reader, Pork Hock  +, writes (21 May 2007):
Same thing happened to me...so when you next meet him, say hi your how are you's etc then tell him you have something to tell him. Don't say a question as he will immediately get defensive, get him intrigued and then say to him "Do you want to see me for another date or not" if you get the end of conversation stuff, we should go out sometime, coffee a drink whatever, turn around and say 'When, lets set a date right now, and if necessary, get out your blackberry or a pen and paper and just wait...if he is umming and urring just say thank you and "I am glad I didn't waste anymore time on someone as indecisive as you, I actually know what I want and it isn't someone who can't decide what he is doing next week". If he actually commits to a date then lets see....LMK
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