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writes:What do men want when they say they want dirty talk. Can anyone give me some ideas of what they are talking about. Do they want me to call them a dirty boy and start spanking them? Or is dirty talk more of "oh f*** me baby?" Just wanted to see what other people thought about this. Reply to this Question
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reader, Bob Freemer +, writes (30 October 2010):
I agree with the above generally, but why don't you just say, "That could mean anything. Tell me what you like?" If he's like the guys I know he will have no hesitation telling you exactly what he means and will appreciate you asking him very much.
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reader, followtheblackrabbit  +, writes (30 October 2010):
 Dirty talk is basically sexually charged "conversation." Over the phone, you usually put on a sexy, husky voice and talk about the things you want sexually done to you and things you'd like to do to your partner...During sex, it's usually more of an encouragement or vivid, verbal expression of pleasure. Example: "oh yeah, harder! Faster! I luv how you use that d**k!" Some men enjoy their partners to do a sort of role play and tell them that they're "dirty girls" and need a good f***. Unless a man straight out asks to be spanked and called a "bad boy," that's not what they mean by dirty talk. They simply want you to get unleashed and use your sexuality, fantasies and/or playfulness to sexually turn them on verbally.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (30 October 2010):
 Dirty talk is suggestive ideas about scenes and actions, trigger words that give them a hard on. If you are on the phone, remember that men are visual so always start from what you are wearing. Men want to be desired, they want you to beg for it. They want you to want just him and no other men, that they are the best, the biggest. If you have little experience you can start from just hugging and kissing and let them lead the conversation. Let him know you are receptive to his wild ideas and how you are excited to feel so good. Save the F word only when you are turned on so much when you can't hold it in anymore. It will mean so much when the tension he builds made you say it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2010): I think it depends on your guy..for the best results you may want to ask him what he wants when he says dirty talk. You would probably get the best answer if you ask him when your not gettin ready to do the deed. Communication will give you the best results. However, i think most guys like to hear what you want to do to them or what you want them to do to you. So your example: "oh f*** me" sounds good!! ps:::my guy loves when i moan and such
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2010): haha they want you to say naughty things to them..like if you two were alone in a room what would you do to him or something. It's pretty much talking about sexual things...
Hope this sums it up! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2010): dirty talk is when you scream his name over and over. dirty talk is when you yell harder harder baby. tell him how bad you want him inside of you. Tell him exactly what you want him to do to you. Sexual. sexual. sexual.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2010): well dirty talk can be anything but mainly its talking about what you would like to do with your partner. adding vivid details to what you are saying helps in keeping your partner aroused
hope that helped
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