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writes:There is a girl who works in my local coffee shop. I have some sort acquitance with her, just saying hi by name and short chats about weather, etc. I find it odd to talk with her more at her work place, because she's quite busy... anyway, long story short, flirting and eventually ask her out at her work place is not my option. Now I'm wondering how else I can get a hold of her? I have never seen her outside her job, and I'm not sure if she lives close by. I thought about giving her a short paper note, saying that I like to take her for lunch/dinner/coffee and if she's also interested... email me.do you think this is weired to give her that note. It's kind of like old style movies to communicate with letter... but how else can I do it.... believe me, I've tried to chat with her a little bit more, but I really feel uncomfortable and I guess she's too... so ladies and gentlemen, please let me know if you find it odd if someone gives you such note?Many thanksBorna
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMany thanks to you folks for the great suggestions. I'll update you if I make progress.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2008): It wouldn't be creepy if you gave her a note,but notes are elementary and junior high.Tell her your name and write down your number and give it to her.Let your MOUTH,not a
piece of paper do the talking.wish you the best.x
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2008): mmmm.. Three great choices for you, in my opinion they all sound wonderfull.
1) Gabberjack: Direct and to the point
2) Emily: Subtle and sweet
3) Uncle Phil: Funny and full of fun
Choose one, and don't forget to come back and tell us how you got on.... Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2008): What you do here is write your phone number on a piece of paper. Draw a horizontal hatched line with 'Tear here' written next to it, and beneath that write 'Yours?'. Hand it over to her along with a pen.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (16 August 2008):
I disagree with Gabber, I don't think it would be creepy to be given a note. I mean if she doesn't like you and you ask her out in front of everyone then she either has to agree to go on a date with a man she doesn't really know JUST because she feels bad... or she can humiliate you in front of everyone.
Next time you are chatting then grab a napkin and scribble your name and number on it and tell her you'd really like it if she called you.
If she does then you can ask her out, if she doesn't then you'll just have to find a new coffee shop.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2008): Sweetie...do what your heart leads you. Myself, I might find it a bit creapy if I found a e-mail...but not if you just came out and asked me. I know she might be busy, but if she is interested in you, she will have all the time in the world. Best of luck Sugar Booger!!
Love,
The GabberJack
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