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*ogaboy22
writes:me and my girlfriend have been together for almost 1 year and 7 months.We are both 22 years old.She is sleeping in our house for at least 2 to 3 times a week.We used to have so much love and care for each other but it seems that it all turn around this past 20 days. we have been arguing on some issues since jan.2 2010 and when we meet on jan. 5 and it seems that she lost all her feelings for me.Since then we rarely meet and she's always reasoning out telling me that she's busy.I admit to her that i am not a perfect boyfriend and promise to work things out hoping that she will give me other chance.Since then she has been very cold in our relationship and she can't even look at my face when I'm talking to her.Sometimes she doesn't responds to my messages and I am always the first one to send her message. She has been very irritated when I kiss her or show her affection. We went out the other night and were happy telling stories but when when I asked her about the relationship then the night started to get cold.I send her a message yesterday asking what's going on about our relationship and she said that she knows exactly how I feel and said that she's sorry because there are many things that going on her mind right now and maybe it affects her mood.When I ask her if she has still feelings for me and she said that she is still thinking and hoping that I understand.I'm really confused right now and sometimes I thought of having a third party on her side that's why she suddenly lost her feelings for me.My girlfriend is almost 1 week delayed in her menstruation period and wondering if that affects her mood.what should I do?shall I stop communicating to her and give her time to think?What if my suspicions are true and there is really a third party?
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reader, buboy +, writes (22 November 2012):
 if there is , i will talk to my girl and ask if we can still fix it if then i think tahats the time to let go...
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reader, cogaboy22 +, writes (19 January 2010):
cogaboy22 is verified as being by the original poster of the question should I tell her how I feel??should I ask her if there is a third party involved?should I admit my mistakes and ask her if we can start it all over again?
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reader, cogaboy22 +, writes (19 January 2010):
cogaboy22 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes I still feel strongly for her and it is really giving me a hard time missing her and knowing that she's not already interested.I can't stop thinking what went wrong and wish to do it all over again. We will meet again tomorrow and hoping that we can talk about this situation and i can't stop thinking of the right words to tell her because I know this might be the last chance that I have.please advice.thanks.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (19 January 2010):
 I can be affectionate at any time during the month. PMS is supposed to make things that are already problematic even worse.
Her answer, "I am still thinking and hope you understand." does not sound like a third party involved.
Whether she wants to talk to you or not you have a right to find out what's bothering her.
Knowing the answer is still better than not knowing. You don't have to blame yourself when a relationship goes wrong. It takes two to tangle.
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