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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hi guys .wud like to keep it as short as possible.i am 19 yrs dating this guy(28yrs)for 1 yr now.I love him and he has been loyal to me but we never had satisfied relationship.we both live in two differnt cities and last we met was 3 months ago.so its always over phone.although when we meet ,we reach ecstacy.he is quite romantic and caring when we two are together but off that, it never works.we fight every now and then but we just can't do without each other.our relatioship has gone through very tough phase in the last 4 months.he took wrong decision about my carrer and brought my life almost to stand still and that made me estranged daughter too.since then we kept on blaming each other but now my career has been shaped up and we are having good time over phone for last 8 days(cos of avoiding everythng that triggers my anger) and we are even planning to meet in 15 days.but all this while when he left me alone to suffer ,i got into sex chatting on net.i am still a virgin and so is my man. but i have done all stuff on net with differnt guys.i have stopped chatting now when we again got back on normal terms but now i don't feel good .i see myself as a cheater and am not even sure if i would not do it in future.i have lost that self control.i even gets shivers thinking my after-marriage life.what if my husband doesnt give me time ,so will i again bump into sumeone else?i love him and want to take this change in our relationship to a new turn where we started.help me and make things clear in front of my eyes as to what should i do?as this age has lots of other things other than love---"CAREER" but ............help!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2008): my suggestion is to sort it out with ur husband. Tell him everythng u feel including the sex chat thing. He wud realise that he has to give his attention to u. Another suggestion is to PRAY and ask for guidance from the Lord.
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