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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've been in a long distance relationship for two months now but I miss my boyfriend so badly that I don't think it's worth it (we are so far apart, it looks like we will only be able to see each other twice until 2013). I told him I was thinking of returning this summer and he told me not to. His reason? "You should make the time we have been apart feel worth it". I like to think that he cares about my happiness and is being selfless, but a part of me thinks: what if he doesn't want me to come back?! He barely went out with his friends when we were living in the same city and 60% of the times he did, I'd go with him. He goes out a lot now and I can't help but think that he is having so much more fun now...I like where I live now and I wouldn't even think of returning to my hometown if it weren't for my boyfriend. I don't want to come back and feel unwanted...
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reader, dude27 +, writes (6 May 2012):
All i can say is give him space dnt rush make him miss u... try not calling him for a few days and you will see him chasing you and asking whats happening and calling you.... just make sure when you do see him let him go out with his friends..the worst mistake ever is when a person in a relaionship holds there partner down and dosent let them live or go out with there mates.... thats why me and my gf are perfect at the moment we plan week by week and catch up with friends when theres something on need to trust.... goodluck and all the best hope it works out :)
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