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41-50,
*ock chic
writes:Hi. I have recently come out of a 4 yr relationship with my ex bf, ILeft him 3 weeks ago, staying at parents at mo. We have a daughter together. The reason I left, his an alcoholic, he has been fighting these demons for a long time. I simply just had enough, sick of the lies etcBut the other day when speaking to him on the phone, he was asking if I would ever take him back etc andI said I really didn't know. He then said if I was to meet someoneElse it would probably be more problems another disastrous relationship! And I said well life is all about learning etcBut since this conversation, i doubt my own words! What if he is right?! What if I'm never meant to be happy?! What if I do just keep going from bad r/ship to bad r/ship? Should I just go back? At least it won't be no nasty surprise! He is seeking help againAfter all
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reader, Rock chic +, writes (8 December 2011):
Rock chic is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi thankyou for your Very honest and kind advice. Much appreciatedI know what I have to do, which is be there for my daughter and look after us both!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2011): Everyone is meant to be happy. Never think you aren't. It can be tough, happiness unfortunately isn't earned through good deeds but found. I am not saying this man can't change. I believe he can, but you need something other than him right now. Alcoholism never goes away, they can cure themselves of it, but it is a constant battle they will be fighting. They may win for years and years, but the battle will be hard. Don't put yourself through that. Keep your hopes up, love your daughter and always have one eye searching. You'll find your happiness.
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