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writes:Hello everyone.Recently I met this guy who I liked immediately and who seemed to like me too. So when I went to his place, we started making out and he wanted to go further but I said no. Mainly because I thought that I wasn't ready yet and I didn't want my first time to be based on physical attraction only.But now I'm thinking: How do I know that I wasn't ready? What if I was? Should I have done it? Please help! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2007): If you're not sure, then you're not ready. It's as simple as that.
You're 13-15 years old? Why the rush into this?
There are plenty of sexually-active teens, but this group tends to overshadow the equally-large group of teens who are not. Remaining a virgin does not even become especially unusual until you're well into your 20's.
Don't believe everything your friends & the media tells you about the issue. Nobody knows when you're ready except YOU.
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (27 July 2007):
 You know when you are ready, when it does not even cross your mind to seek advice about it.
You're still young and you are right not to do it based on physical attraction alone, you will know when the time is right for you.
Take care.xx.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2007): You will know when your ready, theres no rush. oh and use protection.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2007): You will know when you are ready....when you are ready. It is that simple, don't waist time worrying. If he likes you enough he will be fine with it. Anyone you have sex with should be someone that respects and cares for you. I have seen too many girls get hurt by giving out too earlly when they only thought that the guy cared. If he brings it up earlly in a relationship, sex is all he wants: don't over complicate this take it for exacly what I said.
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