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What happened to my sweet girl? Cant she see that I love her?

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Question - (18 March 2011) 9 Answers - (Newest, 24 March 2011)
A male age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Ok this is for the girls but if you lads know I'd like to hear you to. So say you got 2 girls. Girl A's a super bitch that don't chase a lad and don't let him treat her like crap and Girl B's a sweet rosebud who chase after a lad and keep being sweet to him when he treat her like crap. Why when the lad push both of the girls to the point of no return does the super bitch girl cave and take the guy back, but the sweet rosebud hates his guts and walk away from him for good even when he proved to her that he changed to be better and he cries and she know he love her for real? It doesn't make any sense.

Shouldn't it be the other way around with the super bitch girl being the one that hate the lad and don't cave? The super bitch girl is chasing me now and the sweet girl didn't give a crap when I almost died from a car accident. She got a restraining order on me two weeks ago when I got out intensive care and called her. I love her. How can I get her back? None of it makes sense??? Will someone help me figure out you girls? I want my sweet rosebud not the super bitch.

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A female reader, silverlining United Kingdom +, writes (24 March 2011):

silverlining agony auntAll roses have thorns, im a sweet girl i dont chase a man but i let them know i care if i do, i have learnt that all i get is bullys and i have had enough and dont take any crap!

The thing is if you squeez a rose to hard its gonna hurt! Never confuse kindness with stupidity, that was the mistake my x made and at the end of the day he was the one that looked a fool.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2011):

The sweet rose bud was there because she loved that you were spending time with you even tho you treated her like crap she still got to spend time with you and be with you , that's all she wanted and you proved to her that you didn't want her so she gave up and wanted nothing to do with you cause you screwed her over . She wanted to be there with you but you pushed her away showing her that you didnt want her anymore so she left .

Now for the bitch - well that's not cool too call a female that . But anyways if she is that way then im sure no one really likes her as long as someone is adoring her that's all she wants . She will come running back to you begging on her knees for you back cause she is desperate to have someone listen to her and care for her .

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2011):

So you want to know what happened to your sweet rose bud? You, and you only, did a phenomenal job in transforming her love for you into pure and utter hatred.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2011):

Sweet girls pushed over the edge are foaming pitbulls drooling at the mouth to devour the dude that abused them.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2011):

I have a rep for being a sweet girl and everything that's being said about us couldn't be anymore truer. When I love I love and I will go to the end and take a lot of shit and chase and chase but if there comes a point when I learn it was a fuck on me I will write you off and drop you like a hot potato forever and if you try to keep fucking me I will massacre you. People always underestimate us. They think just because we're push overs and go the extra mile that we don't have it in us to say enoughs enough kick ass when we put our foot down and have enough. When we say its over its over.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2011):

I learned the hard way to never mess about push a sweet girl to the point where she start dishing back to you what you dish out to her cause she'll be your worst nightmare if you don't back off her. She ain't vindictive because she'll walk away gracefully but if you keep after her once she done told you to go to hell she will cut you deep and grind you up like chopped meat. I walk on egg shells around those type of girls. They got the worse tempers and hardest cement rocks for anybody the fuckem over. They real and expect whoever they friends with to be the same. I learned a hard less and haven't got over the sweet girl I messed about bad.

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A female reader, SeriouslyStephanie United Kingdom +, writes (18 March 2011):

SeriouslyStephanie agony auntWell no offence but it is your own fault. You said you pushed them both to the point of no return - why would you do that and expect everything to be ok? Your "sweet rosebud" as you call her has probably got sick of coming crawling back to someone who treats her like crap. You and your "superbitch" deserve eachother!

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A female reader, aAoa India +, writes (18 March 2011):

the sweet girl has given all she can - till you make it a make it break it situation- she doesn't have anything to give anymore after that

while the "bitch" hasn't and she can afford to give you..

why are you doing this to two girls?

messing up with people's life is not for you to do..

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2011):

Because a sweet girl puts her whole self into you and when you screw her over at the max level whatever that winds up being she's worser to you then your worst enemy. At that oint whatever you did hit her hard and the best thing to do is move on because that means she changed into a monster about you and will shred you to pieces and not give a hoot. Sweet girls are the worse ones to mess over because they are vicious like dobberman pinchers once it sets in that you f*cked them over. There's no in between with them when you push them to the point of no return. They are hardcore vicous and unforgiving once they cut you off cause alls they can remeber is how bad you f*cked them.

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