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What does it mean when your partner gets back in touch with an ex from almost a decade ago?

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Question - (1 March 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 1 March 2010)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

what do you think it means and what would you think if your boyfriend of a year (whom loves you and you love him) added an ex girlfriend to his facebook. They dated over 8 years ago for 2 years. She was his first love. They havent been in touch since.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2010):

Hmm, I guess I would be a little worried and insecure at first! But if they haven't had contact since, it is probably just a "random add" which means nothing. It is easy to find people you used to know on Facebook, and lots of people do add past friends, partners, workmates, etc. They don't necessarily have any contact with them though. I added a guy who I once had feelings for, but it was just nice to catch up on each other's lives, nothing more. We don't really speak at all now, but we are still friends on Facebook. I am over him, he is in a relationship...it's just a friendly thing.

So as long as you have no reason to suspect anything, and going by how your boyfriend has not contacted his ex since adding her, I personally don't think it is anything to worry about. x

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2010):

That he was bored one day and probably typed in over 50 different names.

Having failed to find Pamela Anderson, old gym buddies and high school teacher he tried that girl he dated a long time ago....what was her name again....

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