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What does it mean when the husband masturbates and looks at porn more than has sex with his wife?

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Question - (15 December 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 16 December 2007)
A female United States age 51-59, *machelle writes:

what does it mean if your husband masterbates and looks at porn more than he has sex with me?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2007):

it sounds like porn addiction......this is not a sexual addiction, even though the sex organs are used, it is a chemical addiction and escape mechanism. visit to learn more. go to the partner support board to see if the women there are telling the same story as you. This problem is getting much more pervasive since the accessability and privacy of the internet has hijacked men's libido and brainwashed them with the porn mentality. Only 10% of men are victim to this particular addiction but if that is what it is, it can become a serious problem......does your husband spend time doing this when he should be doing other things, has it affected your sex life, does he keep it secret or lie about it, does he do it at work??? Have you looked at his history on the computer to see how often he does this? I hope for your sake he is not headed down this slippery slope, but if he is the sooner you address it the better. good luck to you

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