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writes: this guy told me keep in touch...i assumed he wanted to still keep in contact. so why haven't i heard from him? it's been 4 months now. what does it mean when a guy says keep in touch? Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2006): maybe he was waiting for you to contact him, he might be too shy to make the first move.
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reader, bellachic385 +, writes (1 November 2006):
 First give him a call or an email and unless he writes or calls back then move on girl you deserve way better. Something might have happened and his intentions might have been good but he could just say that to everyone because he doesn't have the guts to say what he means.
4 months is a long time to not hear from someone that means something to you.
Good Luck.
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reader, Dr Pete  + ♥, writes (1 November 2006):
 It's not so much a guy thing. That is just an expression people - guys and girls - say to someone, isn't it?
I think maybe you have taken it too literally. Or perhaps the guy has been sending you mixed messages?
If you wanted to speak to him, could you have contacted him? I mean - surely you haven't been waiting around for four months hoping he would call you? That would just be silly. Give him a call, or contact him - if you want to stay in contact.
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reader, Lorraine31 +, writes (1 November 2006):
 hi,
don't worry. People say that all the time but how many of us actually do keep in touch. Its a rather flimsy saying anyway and not very solid.
give him a call or write to him, he did say to you to keep in touch... if you have no address or phone number you will have to wait and see if he ever gets in touch with you but don't hold your breath. having said that sometimes guys need a gentle push in the right direction and a phone call or letter will mean that you have indeed tried to keep in touch!! Best of luck
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