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*oveitlongtime
writes: met this guy the other weekend. and I have been running into him at this nightclub I am usually out with my friends.everytime we see each other we get really touchy, we have amazing conversation, we almost hooked up, but I am not that kind of girl on the first date kinda basis. So every time we see each other we end up getting really close and touchy, and we make plans to meet up places, if not he usually knows where to find me. He felt me up about on the third date, and we cuddle and stuff especially at night, he never asks me for anything in terms of sex. He tells me I am so attractive, and that he loves my personality, and that I do not care what anyone thinks.He gets extremely jealous when I hang out with other guys around him and stuff. And I just found out he had a girlfriend...i spoke to him about it, and he said to me that she is beat and annoying and he has been done with her for two weeks. This is where I get confused, it is not like he is using me where, I have done stuff with him, that he wouldn't be getting with his girlfriend, I feel like he goes out of his way to see me and stuff. I feel like the other woman, even though my feelings for him are not strong, I believe there is something. what's his deal.. I feel if he was just using me he would of tried harder.. he wouldn't go out on weekends when he could be with her.. to see me. What do I do.. what's his deal.?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2011): These don't really sound like dates he's taking you on...more like opportunities to sneak something in on the side. You're just being used and this isn't how a guy treats a girl he ever wants to become serious with. More like how he treats a girl he will discard later.
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reader, Romanilove +, writes (18 May 2011):
I think that u must wait until him and his girlfriend are really broken up. Otherwise, that could get messy. Dont get involved with him when hes with someone else. Thats shady on his part. Dont cuddle, let him feel u up or anything of that until u are sure he is single.
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reader, laundrydog +, writes (18 May 2011):
You deserve soo much better than this!
You deserve a relationship that starts healthy. You shouldnt be feeling like the other woman, you deserve to feel like a man's only woman.
Take it from a woman who has gone through the SAME EXACT situation - twice - there is no happy ending here.
Learn sooner than I did.
Ditch him before you go too far and find someone else.
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