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writes:I got dumped just about a month ago. There was nothing wrong with our relationship, we got on very well and he did not dump me because of a bad relationship, but because he felt we were very different. He still loves me and meant everything he said. He is very complicated and overthinks things a lot, making them much more complicated and confusing for him. I still see him at school and the problem - if you can call it that - is that despite telling me to leave him alone and not allowing us to be friends, he still looks at me throughout the day. It has become so frequent that I have come to expect it. The way he looks at me and occasionally talks to me reminds me of when we were friends before. He doesn't like a mate talking about girlfriends and got uncomfortable, breaking the eye contact earlier today.He has confused me. From the signs he has shown he still likes me, but what he has said doesnt say the same. What does he really want? Is there anything I could do or is it just best to leave him to work it out himself? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2010): thanks, i have tried talking to him but hes not in a good place at the moment. he has depression issues and overthinks things, im gonna trya nd talk to him again after a while. :)
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reader, happy140  +, writes (10 October 2010):
 I think your answer is in asking him. If you feel comfortable ask him why he continues to look at you the way he does if he is not interested. That will put him in a spot to tell the truth or to let you know he already did. It seems some of us men do not realized until later in life that opposite can be PERFECT for each other. My wife and I are opposites but we feed off each others strengths. I would ask him-he might have just been scared of the way he felt-your both young and those kinds of feeling are new.
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