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Hello my name is Becky, I am 16 years old.I made this account so that I wont be in the dark about anything as far as relationships go. Have any questions or comment, message me =)

I moved away and never told her how I felt!

Q.   Hi, Recently, I've had to move country, away from my really close friends. But the worst part of it is that a while before I left, I fell in love with someone there. And now, I really can't cope without her. I think about her all the time and ever...

A.   4 December 2010: TELL her how you feel boy! Let her know because you never kknow if she may feel the same ;)... (read in full...)

Can upper classman date freshies?

Q.   Okay so there is this really awsome, sweet, cute guy that I like alot. But there is one thing...he is a freshman. Im a sophomore. I know this may sound dumb, but when I asked my friends if they would date a freshman they alll said no...But I would, ...

A.   4 December 2010: I ask this questions because im 16 and he is 14 and basically he is a young guy, and if we do end up being together for a long time them when im 18 he will be only 16 which I find kinda on creeper status...what do you guys think about a two year age ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend does not go out of his way to make me happy

Q.   Relationship is about effort, isn't it? And adjustments. I've adjusted to a lot for this man, except one thing. He doesn't really go out of his way to please me, even when he knows it'll make me happy. Some man have to grope in the dark and gu...

A.   27 November 2010: Basically llove is about comunication and if you dont comunicate what you want from him then how is he suppose to know what to do. Him not making him happy is just as bad as you not telling him, because boys dont know what they are doing wrong. My ... (read in full...)

Is it possible to have feelings for two people?

Q.   Is it possible to have feelings for 2 people? One is my boyfriend (who I love to bits) and one is another guy I met a few months ago (who I'm starting to fall for) Nothing has happened between me n this guy although I would like it to but won't do...

A.   27 November 2010: Yes it is definately possible, but if you love your current boyfriend then you wont do anything to put the relationship in danger. The best advice that I can give to you is to just be friends with the other guy and that is it but if you are admit ... (read in full...)

13, pregnant and don't know what to do...

Q.   hi I'm 13 and pregnant, I'm scared, dunno what to do and not sure who the dad is! Only my best friend knows, not sure what to do... its been 2 months now I'm scared HELPPPP...

A.   27 November 2010: You need to let your parents know about this and after that they can tell you what to do next. Dont try an take this into your own hands because it can get out of hand reallt quick. TELL YOUR PARENTS!... (read in full...)

I don't feel pretty.

Q.   i am 13 im ugly with brown spots (one above my lip and one on my cheek on the other side) on my face, i have dark brown eyes, and my friends alway call me pretty, even though im sure im not. i hate how there are so pretty people and i aint even half ...

A.   23 November 2010: Everyone is beautiful in thier own way...and for the boy, if you act confident in your self then it wont matter about looks some guys look for personality...So be confident, call yourself pretty often, and smile! =)... (read in full...)

Would this be considered cheating?

Q.   Ok there is this guy i really like but he says he want to be just friends. I understand that, he takes up most of my life and we do "stuff" together and he says i am free to date who i want. So i met this dude online and he is coming to visit me ...

A.   22 November 2010: No way! If this guy that is so called considered your "friend" does not care what you do then go ahead and have fun girl. Dont worry about it, he is probably hooking up with girls himself. =) ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has pushed me and punched me but now he wants me back what should I do?

Q.   write im 14 and the other day i was with m boyfriend and we started arguin about something stupid and he called me a slag so i pushed him backwards (which didnt move him anyway) then he punched me in the stomach and pushed me over i started crying ...

A.   22 November 2010: Dear Annon, basically this is what's called an abusive relationship and needs to stop. If he will hit you once that means he will most definately hit you again. If you except him back into your life then it will give him the okay it again, and I ... (read in full...)

What does he mean by that?

Q.   Here's the deal there's this guy that likes me and he knows I like him back and we haven't actually agreed to be a couple even though everyone knows we like each other. Basically we're just friends, but I don't know what he thinks of me at this poi...

A.   22 November 2010: Hello Hobolamp, I think you need to reavauate your particular reasons for wanting to break it off in the first place. Are you just finding reasons to break it off because you notice a new guy that caught your eye or are you really not interested ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has a crush on another girl!!!

Q.   So I have been dating my boyfriend for 1 month and before he meet me he had a crush on this girl. Recently I found out that he still has a major crush on her, he also wrote on her facebook wall that she was gorgeoous...she I be concerned?...

A.   16 November 2010: I totally agree with you, but I just dont know how to start a conversation with him about it without coming off too aggresive because sometimes my anger will come off way faster than the hurt and I wont be able to filter what im saying and may end ... (read in full...)

Should I have to convert to a faith that I don't even believe in?

Q.   Well my boyfriend is Catholic and I am Baptist and we have been only dating for 1 month but we already have stong feelings for eachother...Soo last night we were talking about stuff ya know the usaual then he asked me what religion I was...and then ...

A.   15 November 2010: Thank you @aunt honesty... (read in full...)

I can't stop myself from pulling out my eyelashes!

Q.   dear cupid, soo, this isn't a relationship question, buuut it's something that i REALLY need help with. i guess, really, it's more of a health question. anyways...hopefully, there's somebody on here who can help me out. ever since i was aro...

A.   15 November 2010: You have a compulsive disorder that may require medication...I think you should get this checked out by a doctor =) hope this helps... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has a crush on another girl!!!

Q.   So I have been dating my boyfriend for 1 month and before he meet me he had a crush on this girl. Recently I found out that he still has a major crush on her, he also wrote on her facebook wall that she was gorgeoous...she I be concerned?...

A.   15 November 2010: @dmartin He put I little like thing on her wall called why what's up...it's a teen thing, and ways the way he said it was like omg are you kidding me...it was like, ******** The girl I can't stay mad at The most gorgeous girl The one everyo... (read in full...)

What can I do besides having sex with my boyfriend

Q.   I have been dating my boyfriend for 1 month now and we makeout all the time, recently he tried to finger me and I stoped him. I am virgin and plan to stay one until I get married, but I just felt like fingering is losing your vigintiy. I want to ...

A.   15 November 2010: I want to wait until I am married because I want to save my virginity (something I consider special) for my husband...I want him to take it, not a boyfriend that could up and leave whenever, ya know?!. I'm just stil not quite sure what to do because ... (read in full...)

I'm 13 and my girlfriend wants to have sex, if we don't she'll dump me!

Q.   I'm 13 and my girlfriend really wants to have sex. My best friend did it once and said it was a great experience. I'm breaking under peer pressure and need help. We've been going out for 10 months and I really like her. She said if I don't have sex ...

A.   15 November 2010: Good Job!!! =)... (read in full...)

I'm upset about how he reacted to the gift

Q.   My BF and I are very close. He's very special and i care about him so much. Lately I been feeling like he doesn't really have much feelings 4 me when I tell him I don't like certain things. I been feeling like my feelings don't really matter. S...

A.   14 November 2010: You are not being to sensitive...I would have been hurt as well. How about you try telling him how you feel and say look I bought this for you and it hurt my feelings when you just didn't care and was unapppreciative. You should approach him very ... (read in full...)

Is it wrong for a teen to masturbate?

Q.   im a teenage girl and this past year i have had relationship problems and feel like a part of me is missing without him. i started humping a towel rolled up and waiting until i got a good feeling. is that considered masterbaition? also, is it wrong ...

A.   14 November 2010:  Humping a towel is a form of masturbation...but there are many different types. If you are going to continue to do this be careful, because irritation with set in if done to rapidly or roughly. Also, no there is nothing wrong with masterbation, ... (read in full...)

I'm 13 and my girlfriend wants to have sex, if we don't she'll dump me!

Q.   I'm 13 and my girlfriend really wants to have sex. My best friend did it once and said it was a great experience. I'm breaking under peer pressure and need help. We've been going out for 10 months and I really like her. She said if I don't have sex ...

A.   14 November 2010: Dont do it because someone ask you to do it. You do it when you are ready, and if she is pressuring you to do it then she really does not care about you as much as you thought. Also your relationship will not last very much longer if this continues ... (read in full...)

What kind of guy do girls want?

Q.   Girls, Would you rather a man who would fight for you or would you rather a skinny twig or a man with muscles (not overboard but enough you can feel them when he hugs you)?...

A.   14 November 2010: Personally I like a guy that is not very muscular but "in shape" I dont know if you really get what I mean, but my boyfriend does crosscountry and wrestling. He is not to nig he is perfect...he is toned...I prefer a "in shape" kind guy, not too ... (read in full...)

Boyfriends best friend confuses me!

Q.   Hey there, So I have this "problem" (4 a lack of better words), I'm confused about my boyfriend's best friend and men in general. So let me tell u all about it and if u can give me your opinion I'd b truly grateful. My boyfriend and I have b...

A.   14 November 2010: He has feelings for you, hints the way he is trying to ruin your relationship. I think you need to leave this guy alone all together because only thing it's going to do is mess up your relationship. Dont let anything or anybody come between you and ... (read in full...)

I'm crushing on my pregnant friend's boyfriend

Q.   I liked this guy but I'm not exactly pretty but I have this really pretty popular friend who liked him also and of course he said yes to her. I accepted that and moved on since she's my friend. But recently she told me she was pregnant. I asked her ...

A.   14 November 2010: This is your friend's boyfriend, and she is having a baby! I think you should just leae him alone, and you would not be a good friend to her if you just come into thier lives and takes him away from your friend and is baby!!! Hope this helped... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has a crush on another girl!!!

Q.   So I have been dating my boyfriend for 1 month and before he meet me he had a crush on this girl. Recently I found out that he still has a major crush on her, he also wrote on her facebook wall that she was gorgeoous...she I be concerned?...

A.   14 November 2010: Thanks everyone, and @annonymous person: We are exclusive because he is my BOYFRIEND! @largentsgirl89 I got my frind to ask him if he has any crushes and he said he did...and I personallly was shocked and hurt, but then again he had a crush on her ... (read in full...)

Virginity

Q.   Every time I see a sex question posted by a young girl 13-15, I cringe and tell myself, "Don't you dare read this." Myself stubbornly refuses to listen, blows me a raspberry, and reads on - hell is sometimes unleashed. The questions which affect me ...

A.   14 November 2010: Well not every teen is thinking about sex, because I know that I'm 16 and I want to wait until marraige and I feel really strongly about waiting and my boyfriend respects the idea as well. I think that teens now a days need to suround them selves ... (read in full...)

I miss him!

Q.   Ok so me n this guy were seeing each other n everything was fine n everything was completley normal. I fell in love with him after only 1 month. Never in my entire life, have I ever loved someone so much! When I first met him, I didn't think ...

A.   14 November 2010: Hey girl, So I have been dating my boyfriend of a month now...and when we first started going out he texted me everyday not he kinda of skips a few days in between. I end up caving in and texting him...but we always end up okay, I think that you ... (read in full...)

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