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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I'm always going to have a soft spot for my ex (my first love) we broke up 4 years ago, but I'm wondering if he still likes me. When I went to look around the place he was at College, I text him just saying I was there. He text me back asking what I was up to, who I was with, and suggested about going to a bar together. (I declined, as I had other arrangements) but we met up the next evening instead. It was just like it used to be.. we had a really good night, we sat together and he hugged me goodbye too. On the way home, my friend said how 'good' me an my ex were together, and said she thought he was still fond of me. (Whats that even mean?!) I was greatful that she noticed the way me and him were together too.When we do have a conversation via the internet, he always asks me if I fancy anyone, if Ive been with anyone or done anything with anyone. Alot of the time it ends up being a dirty conversation, but he says he'd never take advantage of me (as Im still a virgin).I know he's had girlfriends whilst living there. I'm wondering does it sound like he still likes me? Is it possible we could get back together? (We broke up when he went to College, but now Im moving about 30 mins away from him, as its a better job) I know alot will say he's using me for sex, but he's never sexual person-to-person, just over the internet. Is it worth meeting up again and seeing how it goes? What should I look for? etc.I'd just like your opinions really!
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reader, CIsaac +, writes (4 February 2009):
 I don't think long distance relationships are very wise. It allows to many things to happen. The only thing good about long distance relationships is that you can see how much you really like someone. i.e. out of sight out of mind or absence makes the heart grow fonder. It's obvious you still like this guy but it doesn't look like he's totally committed. Perhaps you could confront him again and see exactly where he stands but i thing you may know already where he stands. Your young and I think you should find out what you want first before you make any decisions.
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