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26-29,
anonymous
writes:I am a Sophomore in high school, and I have my Spanish class with a good friend of mine that I have a crush on, Tim, as well as my brother. My brother dared me to give Tim a lap dance (JOKINGLY!!) after I mentioned how I don't back down on dares. After school, Tim came up to me and asked if he was going to get that lap dance. I wasn't super comfortable with giving him one right then, because we were in a public space, so I said "Maybe tomorrow??" and smiled. He looked really sad, so I reached up and hugged him with my arms around his neck (he is 6 foot something). He stiffened up and didn't fully hug back, so I kinda backed off and left the school soon after.Now: my question is this.What do you make out of this? and Do you think he may like me back?Complete honesty would be very appreciated! :D Thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2011): Err, no. I think he was after one thing, a lap dance and when you didnt deliver right then and there he had already "mentally" moved on, hence the stiff hug.
If you really do like him and are interested in starting a relationship with him, I would advise against starting things off with a lap dance. You want to be valued by who you are, not by how you gyrate on his lap or else he is very likely to think of one thing and one thing only when pertaining to you. You dont have to be provocative to get your point across to him. You are still young yet, there is no reason to open the door on those kinds of things. Find out what his hobbies are, show an interest in him as a person and he just might do the same to you instead of viewing you as someone who he can get what he wants and then move on. Respect yourself, and chances are he will respect you too.
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