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writes:I've been talking to a guy for months now and we haven't been too close ever since. He's busy with basketball and school. So i told him how i feel about me missing him and wanting to be in a relationship with him and reply saying this : " Look, idk when I'll see u Again but when I do trust I'll like it .. I've just been doin me for a while comin home all da time i hardly stay at my aunts anymore . All I do now is just go to school and support my lil bro .. and play ball.. and I still don't have a phone so I could never get in contact wit anyone.. I know it sucks cuz we were so good..i miss u... "Ever since he wrote that to me, we haven't talked for months. What does this mean ? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2011): I think the other answers are right... it is rubbish because I am sure it is not a reflection on you as a person it is more of a circumstantial thing- would you really want to be in a relationship with someone who you hardly see? I have had experience of this and it is tough going especially if you have not got much of a foundation (e.g. have lived near to each other for 6 months and then move far apart) as trust would be really important. Learn from it though as I am sure now you can look for the qualities you like in this guy in other boys and therefore find someone who is more suitable.
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reader, bittersweetmemory  +, writes (11 June 2011):
 well he clearly told you he can't stay in touch with you...there's not much to it..you just have to accept it and get over him i guess..
i'm sorry
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2011): Sorry but don't hold your breath. He's being nice but if he was keen enough he would find a way to see you.
I hope you will find someone with more time to spare and who is keener; this always feels much better than wishing and hoping.
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