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anonymous
writes: I was with a guy for a year and half during uni, we were quite serious, but both had tempers, i went though quite a traumatic experience family wise, and he wasnt very supportive. During this we grew apart, due to his lack of support i became distant it was hard for to be close to him when he showed little support in return. On top if which he was emotionally abusive towards me.So when threatened to break up for the fourth time , surprisingly and out of nowhere i grew angry, i said do it, i am tired of your threats.so he moved out, the day before we broke he said he loved me. Begged me not delete him from my life, i blocked him on facebook.deleted his number.7 months later, as we went to uni together , we did different courses.he was at graduation. I knew he would be despite my family saying he wouldn't be , i had a strong feeling.i was about to walk past and his dad grabbed me by my arm drew me in, his family asked how id been said im doing well, i have a new job.i was so buzzed being graduation, i didn't care. my ex then said youve been good then? i said yeah , awesome.he then said so going to your brothers gig later? i said course, he is my brother, i wouldn't miss it.he then turnedp, would stop staring,to the point i felt uneased.Got me a drink, surprisingly. after my brother performed i left with my friends, to our local bar he turned up. and with my brother sat at a table near ours. looked annoyed. i was with many other people. A guy i didn't know joined us and starting talking to me, told me i was beautiful, it was nice to be appreciated. my ex left shortly after. my ex text me the day after , said it was nice to see me, to keep in touch. i text back yeah, you too.left it at that. 3 months later, i have unblocked him.he deleted a comment of a previous comment he left on one of my pictures of us together. (thought this was a bit strange) why should it matter? we are separated.neither of us are seeing anyone.help please?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2012): His behavior could mean several things. But my question to you is why should it matter to you? If you have been separated for almost a year, either you want him back or you still have strong feelings for him. I don't care what any of my exes do because the relationships are done. They can show up where I am hold conversations with my friends and i simply could care less because there is nothing for them on my part.
I don't see where he is stalking you or causing any real detriment, so again why would you care?
Best of luck to you and congratulations on graduating from college.
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