What do I do to keep her from pushing me away?

A male age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My girlfriend was molested by her older brother when she was 7 and again when she was 12. She is also bi-polar and the combnation of this things gives her nightmares. She is beging to push me away even though she tells me that that I am the only one who can balance her out. What do I do to keep my girlfriend from completely pushing me away?

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