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What do I do if he says I am a rubbish kisser?

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Question - (5 March 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 5 March 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'm having a bit of trouble! I have not had a boyfriend since primary and I'm now in Year 3! I have never kissed and when me and my friends are having a gossip they ask me how many boys I've kissed so I lie and say i have kissed. I am afraid that if the boy I like says yes we will kiss I don't know how so what if he says I'm rubbish and goes and tells his friends. What can I do? any Tips?

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A female reader, cd206 United Kingdom +, writes (5 March 2007):

cd206 agony auntOkay first of all the secret to any good kiss is feeling relaxed so deep breath! No guy will be able to tell whether you have kissed before. Just take it easy and remember the guy is just as nervous as you. The best kissing tips I can give you are keeping swallowing so you don't end up slurping on him and not to use too much tongue. And pick the person you kiss carefully. You don't seriously want to end up with a guy who will say you're a rubbish kisser but if you do end up in this situation I think a good comeback would be "Takes one to know one eh?" Should get any teenage boy to shut his mouth but honestly, kissing is the most natural thing in the world. Don't panic at all!

CD

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A female reader, Beki United Kingdom +, writes (5 March 2007):

Beki agony auntStop worrying i havent kissed many guys and i told my recent boyfriend how many i have, he was shocked thinking i was a rubbish one, kind of insulting but i know i'm not great but i don't suck either.

First it also depends on the other person they might not be great either so dont worry

Next points to keep in mind when you do kiss someone-

Swallow dont want it to have loads of spit,

Dont use too much tongue find a happy medium

Dont open your mouth too much again a happy medium

with kisses you should go into them slowly because it builds dont open your mouth then stick your tongue in let it just happen. good luck!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2007):

Hi!

I'm around your age and I have never had a girl frined, I have never kissed a girl and only hugged one for the first time last week! lol. People used to insult me but I dont care because I actually have a really popular girl in my year who is kind of after me and I have always asked why and people say because I'm not dogey like other teenagers in schools all over who kiss any random peeps! lol. Take it slow and the boy of your dreams shall come and notice how decent you are and he won't care about any experience you may have he shall just care about ho nice and matur you are!

Good Luck!

:)

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