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writes: I'm 18 years old and I'm curious about the "signals" guys make. I live in a mixed-sex boarding house, next to a guy I have a huge crush on. We greet each other every time we bump into each other, and have small talk when we get the chance.By the end of the first semester, he invited me to have a few beers with him and his friends in another room. I declined because I didn't drink at the time. He reassured me though that I was still invited.Communication between us seemed far too little afterwards. However, this semester, I attended the annual black-tie event. I caught him staring at me at one point in the evening. The next day, I sat around with my gal pals in the common room and he happened to walk past. Now I don't know if this was because I was reading (aloud) an article on death and dying, but my closest gal pal told me later that as he walked past, he stared at me the whole time.Now when I'm alone in the common room and he happens to walk past me, JUST when I lift my head to meet his face, he moves his head to look away (but I caught him looking at me anyway). Does he seem interested? And if he happens to be, why won't he tell me?
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reader, pops +, writes (14 October 2005):
He may just have a tic. How should we be able to tell? Why don't you just ask him out for a drink, coffee, or lunch, or something. If he is interested in you, he will say yes. If not, he will say no, thank you. He thought you liked him and were interested in him when he invited you to drink with his friends. When you told him you don't drink, he assured you he was still inviting you. When you turned him down, he thought it was because you were not interested in him. That is why he has not asked you again. He probably is interested in you, if he was interested in you before. Why not take the chance, and talk to him????
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